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August 17, 2008
This post is written by Karlos DeMarko.
Today i want to talk about what will make you look different in woman’s eyes. If you stop doing some of these you will seperate yourself from the 99% of idiots all there.
Why is it so important to know this?
The answer is simply because women are programmed to feel attraction for some particulat male traits and they can do nothing about it.
Here we go.
1. Confidence.
Confident people do not brag about what they have at home. If you feel the need to start talking to a woman you have just met about things that should raise your status in her eyes you are lost, dude. Think about it. She is just a stanger and most probably there is no need to brag.
Here are some examples you MUST avoid:
- Hey you have to come and see what house i have. You know i work in a good company and can afford lots of things.
- I am so good with women and my dick is very huge. Every woman wants it between her tights.
Confident people are not bold. There is a big difference between confidence and boldness.
Confident people are relaxed and they do not think logically all the time what to do next and do not care if some woman will react positively about what they are about to do. Most probably this happens when it is time to ascalate.
NOTE!
Lots of people read this and they say to them selves - OK. I am confident now. Well..the problem is that it does not work this way. When you start perceiving yourself confidnet you create EGO and later when you feel uncomfortable in some situation you are not ready to risk because this will affect your fake EGO. Instead do not think of yourself confident but rather become one with practise.
I want you to promise to yourself that the next time when you are with a woman no matter what try to exclate when it is the right time. This is the only way to become confident - practise.
2. High Self-Esteem.
Most beta males have something in common. Above 90% of them tend to be modest for fear of offending others and because they want to be seen as polite.
If you respect yourself women will respect you too.
Do not think that if you talk about how pity you are she will take the role of a mother and will cuddle you like there is no tommorow. That will never happens. Trust me.
Of course you can make a jokes but make sure you are exactly the opposite of what you say about yourself. This is only used if you are very high value in some social gathering and yu want to make them feel comfortable around you.
Examples:
- “I’m so weak, I’m not sure if I can lift that heavy thing.” – Spoken by a bodybuilder
- “I wear a leather jacket to compensate because my dick is so small. It’s not even half an inch!” - Spoken by a man with huge confidence who obviously does not have sexual insecurities. (That’s why he’s able to joke about penis size.)
• “I’m unemployed and live in my parents’ basement!” – Spoken by a well-dressed man who obviously has loads of money.
3. Doesn’t feel threatened by other people.
Lots of guys try to put somebody down who have nothing in common with the interaction. Almost everyday when i go to some club or coffee bar or what ever it is i hear how the men start to talk rude things about me to their girls. They even don’t know me and i am doing NOTHING. The reason they do it is because my presence is so strong that all the women start sending me signals to approach them.
Don’t be like them. No matter what you talk to her about somebody she is attracted will not help you. This is kind of destructive thinking. The point is not to put somebody down but put yourself up.
Women can swear thay they love you more than anything but the reality is that:
- One of her eye is watching the guy on the other table.
- it will still give her a glow to see you commit suicide for her.
Ignore guys who are a comeptition for you because they are not worth your attention. Talking about them shows insecurities.
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