Dating Revelations

This post is written by D3N1S.

When a woman is testing a man she wants to get a reaction from him. Depending on the reaction you give her she can sense if you are the man you project or you are faking something.

Here is an example.

If you try to project some guy who gets laid all the time and a woman tells you that she will not have sex with you no matter what you will give her some reaction. It is a law that you can not change.

So….

If you are the cool guy who gets laid all the time you will not give a flying fuck what she just said because 10 minutes later you will be talking to a much hotter girl.

If you are the fake guy you will give her a negative reaction and you will start acting rude to her which will prove her that you are not worth her time.

This is one of the reasons women test men. They are hard wired to do so.

Female tests are called shit tests.

Guess why!:)

Shit test is a provocation.

What do we try to provoke?

The answer is already obvious to you - REACTION!

How do we pass the shit test?

The answer is - the less reactive you are the better the outcome will be.

Unreactive does not mean to stay like a statue and not talk at all. Never do that. The point is to be unaffected which means to stay in your own reality. So when a woman is giving you the shit tests you answer her fast without giving a flying fuck what is going on.

Remember! When a woman is trying to fuck your reality up imagine that 10 minutes later you will get 10 000 000 $.

It is the same when you try to provoke a reaction from some girl. If she doesn’t give you the reaction you are trying to get - she has passed. In most cases this is raising her value and lowers yours.

Shit test are some kind of a social weapon that is used by man on man, woman on woman, man on woman and woman on man.

People are constantly giving and taking validation from each other. This is how our society is build.

The more value you have the more validation you get because subconsciously people know that value is a better chance to survive so they are giving you value in order to take some in return later. The lower value you are the more you will be de-validated by the social gathering.

Here is an example:

“Hey, idiot, go and take that then do that and after that go there”.

or

A: Give me that!
B: Here you are.
A: Why are you giving me this to me, you idiot?
B: You said you wanted me to give it to you.
A: So you are trying to say that i am a lier?
B: No. no…
A: Then why are you giving me that to me?

Get the idea?

In most cases no matter what you say you will be accused to be a disturber.

Women you are trying to attract will use some of this to check if you are a low status male:

Turn on the radio! / Give me that! / Do that! and so on…
Hold my bag!
Wait for me here!
Let’s go there….I don’t like this place let’s go there….Hm.. why don’t we go there….

A hight status male will not play the role of a subordinate one around people he is not dependent on.

Shit test may be used not only for de-validation.

Here is more examples of using female shit tests.

Some women will try to make you feel guilty / start to give explanations. This way she will affect your reality and make you look like somebody who had been under the sun too long time.

She: I bet you give yourself pleasure with your right hand. / You haven’t seen a woman for ages.
You: Nooo, i fuck women all the time. I hate gays. <– wrong. you are giving her explanations
You: Well it is difficult to find a woman who has it all together. <- wrong!

More…

She: So what? Are you trying to pick me up?
She: Is this your best pick up line?
She: I have heard this.
She: I hate short men!
She: I hate idiots like you.
She: I hate geeks!
She: I will go out only with a man who wants a relation ship.
She:Do you know who i date? He is so sexy that when we go to some club all the women try to catch him.
She: My ex had a really nice car and a big house. He used to bye me what-ever-it-is.
She: What is your car?
She: Where are your friends?
She: You know what? If your place was more impressive i would come more often. ( Would i invite you so often? )
She: You are so fat like a piggy.
She: You are very old.
She: Do you say that to all the women?
She: You are not my type.

Here is one more:

She: Hey your hairstyle looks so ugly. Go to cut it.
You: I know. I have intentionally made it like this so women stop talking to me..you know i got tired of them.

The fisher and the fish.

Sometimes when you are dealing with a woman who wants to gain more status because she feels that she is lower than you she can start talking about something related to sex. Then when you get hot she will suddenly change the subject which will fuck up your state. It is like someone giving you the cold shoulder but much more professionally done. So when a woman tries to raise your buying temperature do not act like this is your only chance, neither act like you don’t care at all because she is in your company and you have to respect that.

Here is an example.

She: I make really cool blow jobs.
You: Respect. / I have heart some women have emotional problem with it but most of them are good at it. They know what a man wants.

If you don’t do what i say you are a loser shit tests.

This is really interesting. Sometimes a woman will tell you to do something that you want to but if you do it exactly as she wanted you to do it you become simply a beta-male.

She: Kiss me!
She: Touch me!
She: Send me home!
She: Fuck me!
She: Tell me you love me!

To pass these kind of shit tests you have to AGREE with her and AMPLIFY something in the interaction.

Never do exactly what a woman wants you to do.

If you want to see what is the emotional state she will be in you can go out and find some naturally cool guy. Then tell him to repeat something you say. If he is really natural he will change something and will gain control over you. Most probably he will not do EXACTLY what you wanted him to do.

To be continued ….

Your friend D3N1S.

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