Dating Revelations

This post is written by Karlos DeMarko.

Today i was reading a TOP FASHION men magazine and i saw an article where they talk about “Difficult female questions and how to respond correctly”. Of course they have no idea that in the community this is called “shit tests” and the interesting thing was how they give advice for responding to them.

What i noticed is that they try to answer in a way that makes the woman feel a comfort and good about herself. Of course if she is very attracted to you it is ok to build comfort but in most cases when you give a woman too much validation you make the attraction a constant. The problem is that by definition attraction is an emotional feeling which can not be always the same level.It always varies so when you validate a woman too much it is at the expense of the attraction you have build.

Of course these people have no idea that the process of making a woman to fall in love  with you is based on two different things - ATTRACTION + COMFORT which are very opposite. So in order to make everything ok you have to put the woman on a position where she is neither too much validated nor de-validated.

Here are some of the shit tests your girl may throws at you.

1. How much do you love me?

Right answer: Put your hands in front of you with your palms pointing each other then separate them a bit  and say proudly: “this/so much!”

Wrong answers:

-No
-Maybe, i don’t know.
- Why do you ask me?
- Does it matter?
-If it makes you feel better then YES i love you.

2. Am i fat?

If a woman asks you if she is fat then trust me she perceives herself as a fat one. If you tell her that she is not then she knows that you are lying to her. If you tell her that she is then you may brake the comfort level between both of you which will make the attraction too high and will de-validates her. Honestly i didn’t see a single magazine or article where they answer correctly to this question. They always advice you to say that she is not fat but trust me she knows you are lying. So…

Right answer:

- Oh, that’s why Jeniffer Lopez doesn’t want to come to our town.
- Yes. You are HUGE. ( GAMBIT! Use it on your own risk and only if she is anything but fat! )

Wrong answer ( in spite of every one will advice you to use it! )

- No.

3.Do you think she is more beautiful than me?

Right answer: Oh, Are there other women here? ( said with a surprise!)

4. All the women are watching at you.( Meaning that you have too much value for her! )

Right answer: ( The same as above )

5. What are you thinking about?

Right answer: If i wanted you to know i would talk about it, instead of thinking…! ( said with a little smirk )

Wrong answer: ( Telling her what you have been thinking about! )

This is enough for today. Hope you got the idea. Depending on how much attraction or comfort you want to build you decide what to do at the current situation. The answers above are meant for men who are currently in a relationship or something like that. Of course you have to be congruent with your answers. You can not pretend to be the cool guy when there is nobody to go out with or you may realize how attraction really works when you see her back.

See you soon.

Your friend Karlos DeMarko.

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