Dating Revelations

This post is written by Karlos DeMarko.

The very first intimate thing that separates the friendship from romance is the kiss.

As a player you must learn to smoothly escalate to the kiss if you want to seduce many women in this life that you will NEVER live again.

For most men it is a little uncomfortable when it is about to kiss a woman for the first time. The reason is obviously because he is scared of rejection and fucking things up.

This is a very destructive kind of thinking because if you are scared to be rejected it means that your mind is perceiving the surrounding reality in a distorted way. It means that you are with THE GIRL instead of with SOME GIRL.

I know most of you will say that i am some kind of hard core player who has absolutely no feelings but the reality is that this is not true. The reason i am saying that is because i believe that before going out with THE GIRL you should know what girls are in generally and how to deal with them.

The only difference between the dream girl and some girl is how YOU PERCEIVE THEM. You feel attraction to both of them but the mentioned difference is in the COMFORT LEVEL. People call this LOVE and i have seen in the stores hundreds of books ( full of shit ) about this thing called LOVE which is nothing more than ATTRACTION + COMFORT so writing whole books with complex thoughts is not necessary reading because they are not reality based.

So in order to learn how to seduce women you first must learn how to kiss them. And as i said to learn how to kiss them you have to stop perceiving them as GOD, ANGELS and so on. She is just a girl and you can use her to practice.

Now back to the topic…

Is she ready to be kissed?

Here are some of the routines you can use.

1. Never go directly for the kiss. This may work in many situations but the idea is how to develop your skills to work in any situation. Instead of going for the kiss you first have to check the comfort level between both of you. This can be done easily. Hold her hand. If she is comfortable with hands holding then start to smoothly escalate to touching her hair. If she is comfortable with it you can put it to the other side of the shoulder so you expose her neck. ( Sometimes girls will do that by themselves which means that they are ready for more…and don’t forget the hands holding first! ). When you do that take her and pull her into your personal space ( in general if you want to get as close to a woman as possible don’t break her personal space. Instead take her to yours! ). Then put your lips close to hers ( WITHOUT PUTTING OUT YOUR TONGUE! ) and wait for her to make the move. Most of the times she will. If she does not go for the kiss but do not resists then just kiss her.  Also most of the times in the beginning even the top level party girls will not start acting like they have never seen a man before so do not expect to escalate very fast.Be the one who ends the kiss first after a minute or two of kissing and tell her “Bad girl! This is all you will get… for now!” This way you are playing a push-pull game which is one of the basic mechanism of creating sexual tension.

2. Mystery’s kissing routine.

You: Do you want to kiss me?

If she says “Yes” go and kiss her.
If she says: “Maybe” or “I don’t know” tell her: “Let’s find out” and kiss her.
If she says: “Not now” it means that she is not ready. I big mistake you can do here is to start trying to change her mind! Never do it. It is a logical decision where the problem is on emotional level. Instead try to change her MOOD! Anyway… later when it is the (right) time kiss her.
If she says: “No!” it means two things:
- She is not interested in you, YET
- She is interested but she is playing hard to get because in some magazine she had read was written to not be too easy in the beginning.

In the last case instead of being negative check my post http://www.datingrevelations.com/she-does-not-want-to-be-kissed/ for more info.

3. I am not going to tell you….now!

Hey dude, you are not going to go on a Ninja mission. It is just a pussy. Don’t be so scared.

See you soon.

Your friend Karlos DeMarko.

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