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Part 1: Drug Dependence - Here Is The Criteria:
1) Tolerance
This is where someone gets used to a certain drug and it takes more and more to get the same high.
2) Withdrawal
This is where someone goes into physical and/or psychological distress from not having the drug.
3) Larger and Longer
This is where the person cant control how much they take and how long they take it. The drug controls THEM.
4) Unsuccessful cut down
This is where they want to cut down, but they find that they cant.
5) Time spent
They invest a huge portion of their energy in obtaining the drug as well as getting over the initial highs.
6) Reduced social, occupational or recreational activities
This is where they forego other parts of their lives for the drug.
7) Continued use despite knowledge of psychological or physical problems
This is where they can see that the drug controls them and gives them problems and causes them to have to sacrifice other parts of their lives, but they DO IT ANYWAY.
Part 2: The 10 Steps To Becoming Her Drug!
1) Initially, Give, Give and Give
Like a drug dealer, to start with, give her the time of her life. Give it generously to start with. I’m not saying to not make her earn it… just make it easy for her.
2) Fulfill a NEED
It could be an emotional need, it could be a physical need, it could be a need for security, it could be a need for FUN - give her the time of her life… Make her feel good. To find the need, just do a value elicitation for it. “What would you NEED to have in your life to be happy?” and “So how would you know that you had this?” and then “And what would it be like for you to be able to have this, where you can have it in this way? (then repeat her description)” Give her DRAMA! With this comes the extreme highs and lows. Don’t introduce the “lows” just yet… save that for later when you start to do the withdrawal phase.
3) Make yourself a HABIT for her
Become a regular part of her daily routine. I’ve noticed that chicks that weren’t even into me initially succumed to the HABIT when I became a part of their daily life. Paint a picture of you ALWAYS being there for her. Remember, the strongest human instinct is not survival… its HABIT! INSTILL yourself into her “Personal Narrative”. This is the way that she see’s her present and her future expectations.
4) Be unpredictable
So that she never knows what to expect.
5) Transition to making her earn what you give her
If she asks anything of you, ALWAYS ask for something in return, no matter how small… just as a TOKEN of value. This starts the process of her having to earn what you give her. What you ask of her (as small as it may be) puts more value on what you give her and lets her know that you ain’t for free!
6) Use both positive and negative reinforcement
Take away the good stuff when she does things that you don’t like (and if there aren’t any, just make some up!) and reward her when she does stuff you DO like. You NEED to do both. You can also use a “propulsion mechanism” where you have her “move toward” reward, and “move away from” punishment. Also get MAD… and show it! When she deserves it especially. The make up can be well worth it! With guys that get chicks obsessed with them, there is often a “cycle” that starts with tension to explosion to make up to honeymoon to tension to explosion to make up to honeymoon… and on and on it goes. They often don’t even recognize this cycle.
7) Start to crowd out other parts of her life
I know this is evil, but this is the way alot of guys do it that get women obsessed with them. They compete with her friends, guy friends, family… they ISOLATE her from the rest of the world. The use of this evil tactic is up to your own discretion and conscience! This is where you become her WORLD! Let her get the impression that you are in demand This increases your perceived value in her eyes.
9) Start to take it away
Start to make yourself more scarce. But give 110% when she does have you. Let her have withdrawal. Don’t call for a few days, don’t touch her when you are with her for one evening. Resist her advances if she wants to have sex for the evening.
10) Alternate Now between Hot and Cold
Giving and taking it away, Push and Pull. - Make it about her doing things for YOU now. About her trying to keep YOU. Ask her to do things for you. LET her do things for you. The more she gives, the more you ask for. - Of course you have to give some as well, but just not as much.
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Karlos DeMarko
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This post is written by Karlos DeMarko ( while staying in front of the computer )
Some simple thoughts about nice guys and bad boys.
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Being too nice with women is a sin.
They want thrills even if it crashes them.
This is the reason why a woman choses to be with another guy even if you try to convince her that she punishes herself.
It is time to realize that she doesn’t want a man with a good soul. She is not programmed to.
Women do not remember the eyes of nice guys.
Women remember the ones who broke their hearts.
They do not think about the tears you had for them. ( Well sometimes a woman feels pity for the sorrows that she causes without remorse )
The reality is that women crave for some attention from bad boys.
When women don’t get what they want they accuse them of being gay.
More on bad boys…
A bad boy do not call his girl for a whole week but at the end of the week he invites her to party.
A bad boy do not give a shit if his girl feels bad.
A bad boy do not appologice if he forgot about the meeting.
A bad boy flirts with other women and appears dominant in the group.
A bad boy has been to the police at least ones.
Even more on the bad boy…
- It is never boring around him. He is unpredictable and exciting.
- He is strong, aggressive and knows his shit. This makes women feel protected.
- He is very charming and emotional.
- He never has a wretched appearance and rarely feels unhappy.
Women feel very happy if they get his attention. He is perceived as a man who can has every woman he wants so when he gives some woman his attention she feels flattered.
Obviously he is not the long term relationship material but the sweety-bitter memories about him come again and again.
What about the nice guys?
They are so nice that they do not deserve to be with such creatures like women!
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That’s all for today.
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Trying to pick up a woman using a particular technique without being dominant is like trying to put water in your palm and take it to another destination. What i mean by that is : trying to pick up a woman using a particular technique without being dominant is like trying to put water in your palm and take it to another destination.
So how do we become dominant?
The problem with trying to become dominant is that you become domineering. This is not what you want. So the solution is to see what makes us appearing as non-dominant males and try to get rid of this behavior. It is that simple.
Once again. DO NOT TRY TO BE DOMINANT. Instead TRY NOT TO BE NON-DOMINANT in the first place.
Feel free to use some of these as much as you appear natural and never try to pretend that you are more than you are because this way you build character that later you will find hard to maintain.
Here we start.
1. Are you scared to make a joke about somebody?
Non-dominant males are scared to have their little joke because of their psychological condition at the moment. Most of them even compliment other males so they do not fuck with them and make them feel even more insecure. Even worse - they put themselves down so they make others laugh and these way they will not kick his ass.
Here is an example how to deal with alpha males of the group ( AMOG ).
AMOG: Hey dude you must be kidding me. Why are you wearing sport shoes?
You: I am like a ninja with them. They are so quite unlike some official ones who stamp and appear like a man prostitute when you walk.
AMOG: ( AMOGED )
See? The amog is with official shoes and is trying to fuck with you because you wear sport ones. Non dominant males will start to give excuses instead of making fun of him without being rude. Trust me when you say something like that the whole group will laugh at him so hard that he will not be able to say anything rational.
2. Speaking too fast.
Non-dominant males when being around dominant ones or women feel suppressed and this emotional condition makes them feel insecure when they talk and for some reason they need to talk a lot and so fast that it appears as non natural. This combined with the bad body language makes women give them the cold shoulder and laugh hard at them.
Not speaking too fast doesn’t mean speaking to slowly!
3. Thinking too hard what to say.
Women can sense this and in most cases will turn away so they do not feel uncomfortable around you. It is known that if you feel uncomfortable, women will feel uncomfortable around you too. Women hate that.
People who feel comfortable at their own skin may talk so ridiculous staff and still being attractive and have a value.
4.Using defensive body language.
- closed posture
- putting their hands in front of them.
- putting some object in front of them.
-taking little space and feeling uncomfortable when they are in relaxed position.
5. When talking using words like: Um…. known as brain farts combined with biting their lips and putting their finger between the teeth.
6.Their voice never change. It is always monotone even if they tell two different stories.
This means lack of confidence and most people like that are perceived as boring as hell even if they look like Brad Pitt.
7. Their fingers are too alive unlike the rest of the body.
- Twitching the fingers.
- Touching the face.
- Feeling non natural when they put their hands at the hips.
8.Looking down.
Look man,
Just go out and start practicing for two weeks looking people at the eyes whey you pass by them.Do it once for ever and then come back here.
9. Smiling when not necessary.
Beta males will smile when it is not necessary. This way they show that they are harmless. This is the main strategy of nice guys when they are around women. They feel insecure around alpha dominant males and they think that just because they feel like that women don’t like it too so they try to be exactly the opposite which makes them appear as idiots.
10. Walking fast.
When beta males have to pass by people who are looking at them they feel insecure and start walking too fast so they disappear faster. Maybe if they walk naturally the moon will disappear or what?
11. Blinking a lot.
See 8.
12. Shifting their eyes in different direction when they talk with somebody who they are interested in.
This is very beta. Even if you offer somebody a value to guarantee his survival he will not take you seriously. If you want to make somebody listen to you look him at the eyes and talk to him.
13. Being uncomfortable with their eyes.
14. Looking down or away before trying to answer a question.
14,5. Do not feel comfortable when touching.
Man, women LOVE to be touched. Just practice touching them at non sexual places and you will see how they start to perceive you as the men who will fuck them. Even if you are the most ugly freak on this planet if you learn to touch women they will share each other that you are ugly but the way you touch them makes them rape you on the moment. Trust me!
See you soon.
Your friend Karlos DeMarko.
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Today i was reading a TOP FASHION men magazine and i saw an article where they talk about “Difficult female questions and how to respond correctly”. Of course they have no idea that in the community this is called “shit tests” and the interesting thing was how they give advice for responding to them.
What i noticed is that they try to answer in a way that makes the woman feel a comfort and good about herself. Of course if she is very attracted to you it is ok to build comfort but in most cases when you give a woman too much validation you make the attraction a constant. The problem is that by definition attraction is an emotional feeling which can not be always the same level.It always varies so when you validate a woman too much it is at the expense of the attraction you have build.
Of course these people have no idea that the process of making a woman to fall in love with you is based on two different things - ATTRACTION + COMFORT which are very opposite. So in order to make everything ok you have to put the woman on a position where she is neither too much validated nor de-validated.
Here are some of the shit tests your girl may throws at you.
1. How much do you love me?
Right answer: Put your hands in front of you with your palms pointing each other then separate them a bit and say proudly: “this/so much!”
Wrong answers:
-No
-Maybe, i don’t know.
- Why do you ask me?
- Does it matter?
-If it makes you feel better then YES i love you.
2. Am i fat?
If a woman asks you if she is fat then trust me she perceives herself as a fat one. If you tell her that she is not then she knows that you are lying to her. If you tell her that she is then you may brake the comfort level between both of you which will make the attraction too high and will de-validates her. Honestly i didn’t see a single magazine or article where they answer correctly to this question. They always advice you to say that she is not fat but trust me she knows you are lying. So…
Right answer:
- Oh, that’s why Jeniffer Lopez doesn’t want to come to our town.
- Yes. You are HUGE. ( GAMBIT! Use it on your own risk and only if she is anything but fat! )
Wrong answer ( in spite of every one will advice you to use it! )
- No.
3.Do you think she is more beautiful than me?
Right answer: Oh, Are there other women here? ( said with a surprise!)
4. All the women are watching at you.( Meaning that you have too much value for her! )
Right answer: ( The same as above )
5. What are you thinking about?
Right answer: If i wanted you to know i would talk about it, instead of thinking…! ( said with a little smirk )
Wrong answer: ( Telling her what you have been thinking about! )
This is enough for today. Hope you got the idea. Depending on how much attraction or comfort you want to build you decide what to do at the current situation. The answers above are meant for men who are currently in a relationship or something like that. Of course you have to be congruent with your answers. You can not pretend to be the cool guy when there is nobody to go out with or you may realize how attraction really works when you see her back.
See you soon.
Your friend Karlos DeMarko.
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