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This post is stolen from a jerk by Karlos DeMarko ( and i will not go to the prison! )
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Part 1: Drug Dependence - Here Is The Criteria:
1) Tolerance
This is where someone gets used to a certain drug and it takes more and more to get the same high.
2) Withdrawal
This is where someone goes into physical and/or psychological distress from not having the drug.
3) Larger and Longer
This is where the person cant control how much they take and how long they take it. The drug controls THEM.
4) Unsuccessful cut down
This is where they want to cut down, but they find that they cant.
5) Time spent
They invest a huge portion of their energy in obtaining the drug as well as getting over the initial highs.
6) Reduced social, occupational or recreational activities
This is where they forego other parts of their lives for the drug.
7) Continued use despite knowledge of psychological or physical problems
This is where they can see that the drug controls them and gives them problems and causes them to have to sacrifice other parts of their lives, but they DO IT ANYWAY.
Part 2: The 10 Steps To Becoming Her Drug!
1) Initially, Give, Give and Give
Like a drug dealer, to start with, give her the time of her life. Give it generously to start with. I’m not saying to not make her earn it… just make it easy for her.
2) Fulfill a NEED
It could be an emotional need, it could be a physical need, it could be a need for security, it could be a need for FUN - give her the time of her life… Make her feel good. To find the need, just do a value elicitation for it. “What would you NEED to have in your life to be happy?” and “So how would you know that you had this?” and then “And what would it be like for you to be able to have this, where you can have it in this way? (then repeat her description)” Give her DRAMA! With this comes the extreme highs and lows. Don’t introduce the “lows” just yet… save that for later when you start to do the withdrawal phase.
3) Make yourself a HABIT for her
Become a regular part of her daily routine. I’ve noticed that chicks that weren’t even into me initially succumed to the HABIT when I became a part of their daily life. Paint a picture of you ALWAYS being there for her. Remember, the strongest human instinct is not survival… its HABIT! INSTILL yourself into her “Personal Narrative”. This is the way that she see’s her present and her future expectations.
4) Be unpredictable
So that she never knows what to expect.
5) Transition to making her earn what you give her
If she asks anything of you, ALWAYS ask for something in return, no matter how small… just as a TOKEN of value. This starts the process of her having to earn what you give her. What you ask of her (as small as it may be) puts more value on what you give her and lets her know that you ain’t for free!
6) Use both positive and negative reinforcement
Take away the good stuff when she does things that you don’t like (and if there aren’t any, just make some up!) and reward her when she does stuff you DO like. You NEED to do both. You can also use a “propulsion mechanism” where you have her “move toward” reward, and “move away from” punishment. Also get MAD… and show it! When she deserves it especially. The make up can be well worth it! With guys that get chicks obsessed with them, there is often a “cycle” that starts with tension to explosion to make up to honeymoon to tension to explosion to make up to honeymoon… and on and on it goes. They often don’t even recognize this cycle.
7) Start to crowd out other parts of her life
I know this is evil, but this is the way alot of guys do it that get women obsessed with them. They compete with her friends, guy friends, family… they ISOLATE her from the rest of the world. The use of this evil tactic is up to your own discretion and conscience! This is where you become her WORLD! Let her get the impression that you are in demand This increases your perceived value in her eyes.
9) Start to take it away
Start to make yourself more scarce. But give 110% when she does have you. Let her have withdrawal. Don’t call for a few days, don’t touch her when you are with her for one evening. Resist her advances if she wants to have sex for the evening.
10) Alternate Now between Hot and Cold
Giving and taking it away, Push and Pull. - Make it about her doing things for YOU now. About her trying to keep YOU. Ask her to do things for you. LET her do things for you. The more she gives, the more you ask for. - Of course you have to give some as well, but just not as much.
See you soon.
Karlos DeMarko
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This post is written by Karlos DeMarko.
When you are on a date with a woman most of you have some obstacle that is preventing them to be themselves ( the attractive one ) and they talk things that don’t engage woman’s emotional brain which is the main factor for creating attraction.
Well you found my blog so you won’t be like thouse guys anymore. I bet your month salary that after reading this and you start practising in the real world you will make women call you all the time.
Here are a few things you can use during your conversation to get deep into her mind.
1. Promise you won’t tell this to anyone….
2.Now listen very carefully…
3. Wanna know a little secret…
4.Look, i really shouldn’t be telling you this…
5.NO!
6.Stop!
7. You are not going to believe this…
8. Here is something you really want to know about…
9. Did you find out what happened yesterday midnight when…..
10. This is straight from the horse’s mouth….
11. Forget anything else and listen to this….
12. Sit down and listen to this….
Of course you don’t have to use them in a row because it is ridiculous and unnatural. No matter what you do if a woman sense that you are not natural she will think you are a creep.
Once again this techniques are just to be inserted when necessarily. Don’t over do it.
Of course you can think of more examples. This is just a guide. If tou have your own use them. The point is to make her emotional around you. When that happens you are in control of the conversation. It is a natural psychology.
If you are a cool guy without cash and want to have lots of women that even the devil gets angry at you keep coming here for more.
See you soon.
Your friend Karlos DeMarko.
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This post is written by Karlos DeMarko.
Today i want to talk about what will make you look different in woman’s eyes. If you stop doing some of these you will seperate yourself from the 99% of idiots all there.
Why is it so important to know this?
The answer is simply because women are programmed to feel attraction for some particulat male traits and they can do nothing about it.
Here we go.
1. Confidence.
Confident people do not brag about what they have at home. If you feel the need to start talking to a woman you have just met about things that should raise your status in her eyes you are lost, dude. Think about it. She is just a stanger and most probably there is no need to brag.
Here are some examples you MUST avoid:
- Hey you have to come and see what house i have. You know i work in a good company and can afford lots of things.
- I am so good with women and my dick is very huge. Every woman wants it between her tights.
Confident people are not bold. There is a big difference between confidence and boldness.
Confident people are relaxed and they do not think logically all the time what to do next and do not care if some woman will react positively about what they are about to do. Most probably this happens when it is time to ascalate.
NOTE!
Lots of people read this and they say to them selves - OK. I am confident now. Well..the problem is that it does not work this way. When you start perceiving yourself confidnet you create EGO and later when you feel uncomfortable in some situation you are not ready to risk because this will affect your fake EGO. Instead do not think of yourself confident but rather become one with practise.
I want you to promise to yourself that the next time when you are with a woman no matter what try to exclate when it is the right time. This is the only way to become confident - practise.
2. High Self-Esteem.
Most beta males have something in common. Above 90% of them tend to be modest for fear of offending others and because they want to be seen as polite.
If you respect yourself women will respect you too.
Do not think that if you talk about how pity you are she will take the role of a mother and will cuddle you like there is no tommorow. That will never happens. Trust me.
Of course you can make a jokes but make sure you are exactly the opposite of what you say about yourself. This is only used if you are very high value in some social gathering and yu want to make them feel comfortable around you.
Examples:
- “I’m so weak, I’m not sure if I can lift that heavy thing.” – Spoken by a bodybuilder
- “I wear a leather jacket to compensate because my dick is so small. It’s not even half an inch!” - Spoken by a man with huge confidence who obviously does not have sexual insecurities. (That’s why he’s able to joke about penis size.)
• “I’m unemployed and live in my parents’ basement!” – Spoken by a well-dressed man who obviously has loads of money.
3. Doesn’t feel threatened by other people.
Lots of guys try to put somebody down who have nothing in common with the interaction. Almost everyday when i go to some club or coffee bar or what ever it is i hear how the men start to talk rude things about me to their girls. They even don’t know me and i am doing NOTHING. The reason they do it is because my presence is so strong that all the women start sending me signals to approach them.
Don’t be like them. No matter what you talk to her about somebody she is attracted will not help you. This is kind of destructive thinking. The point is not to put somebody down but put yourself up.
Women can swear thay they love you more than anything but the reality is that:
- One of her eye is watching the guy on the other table.
- it will still give her a glow to see you commit suicide for her.
Ignore guys who are a comeptition for you because they are not worth your attention. Talking about them shows insecurities.
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Hi guys.
Sorry for not posting so long but have been quite busy. Now i am back and today i want to talk about what is going on in men’s psyche.
I am sure you have been browsing the web and you have seen some dating site where they sell a book about how to be succesfull with women. I think this is great! Every men should get this part of his life handled.
Well the problem is that when you check the layout of the book you see things like:
1) 50 Increadible NEW ways to make a woman feel attraction towards you.
2) 7 NEW techniques about how to get her phone number.
and so on…
Let me tell you something. I have been practising the game for years and if i realize something NEW once in a year - this is just increadible success. Then i am wondering how the hell do those people that SELL the book have come with 50 fucking techniques for making a woman feel attraction? Well that person has to spend more than 50 fucking years which is way toooooo long and he has no fucking reason to do that. It is much easier for him to take something that is already known to the world and change it a bit and even worse…to sit down and think aboult something logical that SHOULD make a woman fell EMOTIONAL attraction. So please guys if you see something like that just skip it and close the site. It is a bunch of crap. It is just not real. Think about it.
What have ilearned for all those years? One ’simple’ thing that most of the people will not realize even if they have 1200 years to live.
WOMEN ARE THE REFLECTION OF YOUR PSYCHOLOGICAL CONDITION.
If you feel happy without women and perceive them as a bonus in your life they will be attracted to you instantly.
If you feel that you are fucked up and you want to create a stronger reality using the women as an orientation for how happy you are at the moment - guess what? You will never succeed.
A woman will not give you a lift in the world. She will never raise you from the dirt you are in. Remember that. They do not analyse your psychological condition, they pick up on it and if they sense that you are out of the house to see how women react to you so you orient yourself who you are as a person - it is over. END.
Now you may ask how is it possible a woman to know how i feel at the moment I am just walking on the street and i see a woman. Is it really possible to find out if i have friends in my life, hobbies and so on?
Once again: Women do NOT analyse the attractive qualities of somebody. They just sense it.
She might not be able to ratonalize it for her self but she knows if you
1) Have women in your life.
2) How much integrity you have in your job.
3) Have hobbies
4) Are out there living your life or you obey/observe somebody else’ laws.
and so on….
So my best advise i can give you is to never let a woman decide who you are as a person! Always have something else to do and never ever stay at home hoping if she is going to call or not.
You are the one who decides what person you are. Not women, not your mother, not your father. Nobody but you.
If you want to know how to make a woman instantly catch the feeling of that attractive male keep coming here. Soon i will post a solution for that.
Your friend: D3N1S.
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