Dating Revelations

Where I was…

I went to the beach for a couple of days. It was a small town, with lots of people. The environment was much unknown to me. Of course when the night fell upon us we decided to go to a club. We found a great spot – Zangador. It was build to look like a deserted island, with lots of lights and waterfalls, bridges and palms. The dance floor was right on the sand …

Zangador

At first I only wanted to have fun, and the thought of pick up was left behind. The very idea, that I was on a new place, where I don’t know anybody gave me some level of courage. And now I realize that I don’t need this condition and what I did is possible everywhere.

Approaching a new woman is always connected with Approach Anxiety and in DatingRevelations.com I’ve found lots of articles on that matter. I realized that this fear that I feel is actually bigger than it is. But when I started talking, this fear disappeared.

How I decided to act…

While I was having fun with my friends, I was checking the environment and what is going on around me. Most guys were trying to pickup girls and I was wandering why am I not doing it. The other guys were nothing more than me, even worst. But they had success and I didn’t. WTF?! My head was going to blow, until I found the answer – They Were Trying and I didn’t! My inner fear stopped me this whole time… I decided to act!

What I did….

I looked around for free girls and I had to act quickly. Because for the time I took to gain enough courage, someone else was already talking to them. A real war field, where the most decisive one wins. I managed to find a nice looking girl. What I knew is that I should not sneak to her, so I went directly, kept her eye contact for a couple of seconds before I opened her. I said what I wanted. Things were not perfect (and they never are), but she was ON and smiled at me. My goal was to talk to her and to act through my fear. Nothing more, after that I was feeling great and happy with myself. Next time my goal will be higher.

What I noticed…

Before I acted, my mind was about to blow up, by the thousands of thoughts, that were trying to stop me. Do I smell good?! I smell like everyone else! What if she cut me off?! And what, I don’t even care! Should I even try?! If course!

I am always trying to be optimistic and that gives me success. I should act on the moment before this thoughts come!

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