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This post is written by D3N1S.
Before i start i want you to remember this: One message, two calls, three days! I will not tell you what exactly it means but most probably you don’t want me to tell you what it means. By the end of the post if you still don’t know the meaning behind it read my article one more time. Nothing to lose.
If you want to pick up a woman the first thing you have to do is to find out what it means to be a MtAN. You have your own desires, emotions and so on. Do not make excuses that you have a dick with balls and that you want to sleep with women. You are a man. That is why you want to have sex with women. If you were a woman you would want to have much more sex with men. 10x god you are not!
Being a man means you have to be strong. I don’t mean physical strength. What i mean is mental one. Never accept a second hand behavior from men and WOMEN. Especially WOMEN. If a woman does something that you don’t like tell her that you do not like it. Do not be rude. Be calm and hard. Do not let a woman to control you. Do not do what they want or please you to do if you are not in the mood of doing it. ( Well if she is your long term girlfriend and depending on the situation of course you can do something she wants… ) More important is to do what you want. The life is short. If they do not like what you are doing tell them to leave you. This is the price of the success.
Now you might think: “Well if i don’t do what she wants she is going to leave me.” Nooooo! Look, first you have never had her and second women do not want men that are the bitches ass. They subconsciously test you to see if you are living in your own reality or you are affected by hers.
Here it is. Imagine you go to the dentist to repair some tooth. What is going to happen if you see that the doctor is acting worried and starts asking you what to do? See? He i the one who is supposed to know what to do. If you tell him put some of this on my tooth and he does it i am sure that you will freak out. It is the same when you let the WOMAN to control the MEN. So never be scared to lose her.
The only way to win a woman is when you are ready each one moment to lose her FOREVER!
More on the topic…
Do not start the conversation with compliments like how beautiful she is. She knows that. She has been hearing that all the time. If you want to be able to talk with women in a fluent way you have to practice it.
Each day talk to 10-15 girls. Do not go home if have not talked to at least 10 girls today. Ok?
Watch your body language. Shoulders back. Walk like you have 3 decares of fog in the mountain. Always watch women in the eyes. This way you will show her that you are not like all the wussies out there. You are the man.
Never dalay in escalation. Two steps forward one step back. This is going to drive her crazy.
In order to seduce a woman attraction is not enough. You have to make her comfortable around you.
There is one simple rule: The only way to make somebody comfortable around you is when you are almost TOO comfortable in your own skin. So comfortable that it even hurts.
So how do i show her that i am comfortable?
1) Proper body language. Lean back. Do not lean in.
2) Make laugh of her in a funny way.
This both are enough. This is the secret of the alfa male.
Never be scared to make fun of her. Especially if she is beautiful. Most guys do not find it natural but remember you are not most guys. You are the MEN. Ok?
Make sure that you feel her heart. You do not have to be rude when you make fun of her. The point is to make her feel good. Arrogance mixed with humor is like a magic pill.
Examples:
If you are making out with a girl most probably she will want to bite you softly. Tell her: “OMG, How could such a little and innocent girl tries to bite me. You are a bad girl…” Honestly i do not know how to say it in english but when i say it in my language they all start to laugh and cuddle at me.
When some hot woman walks by you tell her: “That’s why Jeniffer Lopez does not want to be around” or “J. Lo is in the house!”
I hate egoists. They think more about themselves than ME.
Got the idea? Sure you do.
If you want to see her again tell her that it was nice talking to you so you want her phone number to call her.
If you want to be sure that you will get her number make sure she is QUALIFIED. There must be a reason why you want to meet her. May be she looks like somebody that you have always wanted to know. Maybe she has something soft on her looks unlike most of the slutty girls out there. I do not care what it is but you have to show give her a reason why you want to call her and NEVER make her think that you NEED her. You may truly WANT her but you do not NEED her. NEVER. O.k?
Most man start worrying about what she is thinking of them so they never get the courage to take her phone number. Well.. let me tell you something.
1) Never worry about what a woman thinks of you. She is busy worrying what you think of her.
2) If you want to much to know what she is thinking you will be thinking for two persons and you will not be able to be the real you.
Simple and easy.
Remember the rule of man? Do not let them be rude to you and never take a second hand behavior. Tell them that you do not like what they are talking or doing. If they start acting annoyed tell them to go away. That means to be a man. You will soon find that more of the women will become quiet as a kitty when you tell them something like that.
When you have taken her number and make an arrangement for place to meet most women will call you one hour before the meeting and will tell you some reason why they can not come and maybe you can meet some other time.
NEVER accept her reason.
If you start acting politely and tell her that it is O.K. that means that you are OUT. Game over. Let me prove it to you. If you have a meeting with her that means that you have canceled other offers you have got during the day. So when you tell her it is o.k. it means that you will be alone for the evening. That means you do not respect your self which means that she will not respect you too.
No woman can respect a man more than he respects himself
No woman can love a man more than she respects him.
Simple and easy rules to remember.
So when she calls you or send you a sms that she can’t come to the meeting tell her calmly that she is acting like a kid and that she disrespects you and that you do not like it. Tell her that this is UNACCEPTABLE because you have canceled other offers from friends of yours so she must come. Do not give her a choice. You can tell her that if she is really busy with something else she has to call you in the worst case 3-4 hours before the meeting so you can make your own plans for the evening.
No matter how offended she acts just be the MAN. You are more fun than her job. If you believe it very strong she will believe you too. This is one of the easiest way to amplify the respect and attraction.
When you meet some woman you have made an arrangement with the second you say “hi” you may hear her saying: “Well i am really busy this days so i do not have lots of time to be with you..maybe just a cup of caffee”. This is called False Time Constrain ( FTC ). Women use it in case the meeting is boring she has a reason to leave and not be with you.
Well… the second you make her comfortable she will forget about the rest so do not pay attention to her FTC.
As a man you have to escalate to the kiss when you are at some social gathering. No more! O.k? You will fuck her when you take her home on you bed.
So you may ask how do i know if she is going to be positive to my kiss.
I have a post about that but here i am going to show you how to escalate in a simple and natural way.
Start touching her hair. You may say that it is really soft. If she does not give you resistance most probably she will be ready to be kissed. Do not make some kind of weird body language and every thing is going to be ok.
You may ask her: “Do you want me to kiss you?” ( NEVER say MAY I KISS YOU? )
if she says YES kiss her. If she says: I do not know tell her “lets find out” and kiss her. If she says NO that means that you will not get a kiss from her.
You may try what i suggest in my post: “What if she does not want to be kissed”
The point is not take take it personal and practice it as much as possible.
How to go beyond the kiss..
I will post an article soon.
First master how to escalate for the kiss.
See you soon.
Your friend D3N1S.
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Do you know why women masturbate with this two fingers ( middle and forefinger ) ?
Because they are MINE!
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This post is written by D3N1S.
In todays society clubs and bars are the places where you can find lots of women during the night and most of them are so horny that they will fuck your brain out if you know how to lead them.
The first thing you have to realize is that women’s bitch shield is much stronger during the night so you have to do some exercises before taking yourself more seriously.
The most important thing i want you to know is that if a woman says “No” it means absolutely nothing. When you go to a group of women and you get rejected there is a simple rule you have to memorize: “The pick up is OVER WHEN I SAY IT IS OVER!”
If you plan to go for the first time in a night club there is something psychological that you have to overcome.
The place is designed in a way that is different from what you see everyday. There is a loud music and everybody is dancing or doing something. You are going to feel like you are in a different world. Of course that will affect your psychological condition and you may feel like you are not acting yourself and/or you are not congruent with the atmosphere of the club. Even if you have learned some pick up lines they will most probably not work because as i said you are being affected by the club “reality”. Yes!, You are sucked in something else’s reality and you are no longer being a leader of yourself and others…
Anyway…
If you keep going to night clubs this problem will disappear and you will feel more normal. So here is the part where you have to learn things that will help you very much doing your pick up in clubs because as i said it is different from the street game. Trust me.
1. Just act as if it is your place.
2. Practice saying “Hi” to random girls. Keep doing it by the time you feel you are on!
3. I seriously advice you to not approach girls with your friends except if they are much better than you at picking up girls.
4. When you are affected by the “reality” of the surrounding it is normal to not feel like you can pick up the hottest of the chicks so you will most probably make the mistake of trying to pick up some uglier girls and when they reject you you will think that just because ugly-s reject you the hottest will reject you even worse. This is not true. Ugly girls can sense when you use them just because you want to fuck something and that is why they reject you so badly. I know they have feeling and need love too but just leave them for somebody else. Ok?
5.Make sure you are positive. No serial killer look on your face. O.k? No matter what is going on you are there to have fun and nothing can affect your state. Even if you are alone act like this is your place and everybody is there for you. Sometimes this really helps. Make sure you act naturally.
6.Do not use openers like ” Do you have a boyfriend?”
7. Never, ever ask: “What do you think of me?” or “How am i doing the pick up? Do you like it?”
8. If you are NOT Brad Pitt, Me or Some sport player do not hold your face against the wall and do not stay in the corners. Girls will not come to pick you up. Get the idea? You are the man. Do not forget that even for a second.
9.Do not wait to get drunk and then approach the girls. Most guys think that when they have drunk 10 bears they have the biggest chance but this is not true.
10. Once again the pick up is over when you say it is over. Just because a woman has said no to you earlier during the night does not mean it has something to do with you. If you want you can approach her later during the night. Use her name the seconds time to make the opener.
11. If a woman sees you making out with a girl you can open her later in the night. You will have bigger chances wit her:)
12. Find my post: “Reading body language for seduction”
Hope you like it.
See you soon.
Your friend D3N1S.
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This post is written by D3N1S!
Hi guys.
How are you doing?
Are you enjoying the summer?
Sure you do.
Lets talk about how to get a woman’s phone number.
If you are a cool guy most probably if you see something like how to get some woman’s phone number you are going to laugh and think that a real man should not learn such shit.
Well…
It is actually true that real men do not need tricks. They can just ask the woman and take her number.
I agree.
But….
What about a tehnique that NEVER fails! Is that possible?
Lets talk about real world scenario. It is not a difficult think to get a woman’s phone number but sometimes no matter what kind of man you are there are scenarios where it is just impossible to ask for it and get it.
Sometimes it is her friends, sometimes there is not enough time to get to know each other and so on..
According to Murfy’s law if you meet the woman you have been looking for something will happen that will stand in your way. So i had to develop a tehnique that will beat Murfy’s law and every obstacle.
This tehnique is something like a tank in the city. No matter what kind of guns everybody has if you are with a tank you can beat them.
Of course you do not need to use this all the time because you can take a normal woman’s number in a lot easier way. But as i mentioned there will be cases where it is going to be impossible to take it in a regular way so you DO need to change the strategy a little bit.
Straight to the very tehnique…
In different countries mobile numbers start in a different way.
Here where i currently live they start with 089a bcd xyz where a,b,c,d,x,y and z are the rest of the digits.
So in order to get her phone number you need a weapon that can decode these unknown numbers.
I am sure now you are excited and still think that such e weapon is kind of impossible so there is something that smells here….
Well let me tell you something… just relax and keep reading until the end.
O.K.?
Back to our problem for solving the unknown 7 digits.
If we put these 7 digits together they create an unique number.
Here is the number: abcdxyz = 1000*abcd + xyz ( I use ” * ” for multiply )
This is true because 1000*abcd = abcd000 and abcd000 + xyz = abcdxyz <– this is the number.
Well this is interesting but lets make it even more interesting…
We know that 1000*abcd + xyz = [ (4*abcd + 11)*500 + xyz + xyz - 5500 ] / 2
Here is what you gotta do in simple step.
1) Give her your phone where you have loaded the calculator.
Tell her to:
2) Multiply the number of the first 4 digits by 4
3) Add 11
4) Multiply by 500
5) Add the number of the last 3 digits
5) Add it again.
6) Subtract 5500
7) Divide by 2
And here is your number :)
At first you may think this is too much complicated but trust me it is more than easy to perform.
Now lets create the routine so this performance looks natural and not freak her out.
You: Do you believe in magic?
She: bla-bla-bla.
You: Well i know a friend of mine who told me a magic how to take anyone’s phone number. You can take Brad Pitts number if you do it.
She: bla-bla-bla.
You: Let me prove you. It is really fun.
You just have to tell me which is your mobile provider. ( this way you know how her number starts for example 043a bcd xyz ).
She: bla-bla-bla.
You: Ok Take my phone and without telling me your number do the following:
2) Multiply the number of the first 4 digits by 4
3) Add 11
4) Multiply by 500
5) Add the number of the last 3 digits
5) Add it again.
6) Subtract 5500
7) Divide by 2
This way you get her number and you know what are the digits abcdxyz then you put the providers fixed numbers ( for example 043 ) and you get 043abcdxyz.
Of course you can use your own routine. Feel free to do whatever you want. Just be natural.
Proving by example that this works:
Lets say the chick’s number is 0895 277 135
We ask her who is her provider and she tells us ” Globul Int. ” So we know that her first digits are 089.
The number od the first 4 digits is 5277. She multiplies it by 4 and she gets 21108.
Then she adds 11 and she gets 21119.
Then multiply by 500 and she gets 10559500
Now when she adds the number of the last 3 digits which is 135 she gets 10559635
Doing this once again she gets 10559770
Subtracting 5500 gives us 10554270
Finally dividing by 2 gives us her real phone number 5277135 and we know that it starts with 089 so we get 0895 277 135.
Once again this SEEMS and LOOKS to be difficult task but in case you don’t know the nature of the calculators are that when you made some calculation and you want to keep doing another one it REMEMBERS the previous number so you just add another one. It does all the job for you. See? She just adds or multiplies the NEW number and do not have to type the previous one.
This is all for today.
See you soon.
Your friend D3N1S.
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This post is written by D3N1S.
Tell me honestly have you ever experienced some of these:
- When you meet a woman you do your BEST to win her but unfortunately she is kind of more interested in somebody else in the group. No matter what you try she seems to be positive to some jerk that you can’t stand.
- When you are on a first date with a woman you feel that the atmosphere is kind of monotone and boring. You keep asking questions as if it is a job interview and she answer in non emotional way. Then you get some feeling that nothing is going to happen which fucks up with your reality and you can not take it to the next step.
-When you are out with a woman she starts talking about her problems and you get some shitty feeling that you have to do something for the “pity” girl.
-Often you get in a situation when a woman start talking that her boyfriend is a jerk and she needs some romance. You do everything possible to make her feel good and you end up taking shower the same evening with you hand trying to get rid of the dry feeling you have just between your legs.
Why is everything this happening to you? Let me tell you why. Because you take advice from women about dating.
You may ask: “So i do not have to take advice from women about dating?”
Answer: Not exactly. Let me tell you something….
If you ask a woman what she wants in a man she will tell you something which is not a LIE.
If you try to be that something you will not get the woman.
Then why does she tells something that is not a lie but it does not work?
It is a little complex to be explained but i will do my best to make you realize what is going on here.
If you want to be in a relationship with a woman you have to get through some natural phases:
1) ATTRACTION
2) COMFORT ( ROMANCE, RAPPORT and so on… )
3) SEDUCTION
4) Relationship
You must do these steps exactly as they are. You can’t start with 4 or 2 or 3. You must keep the natural order.
If a woman wants to start a relationship with THE GUY ( she is supposed to be attracted to him first - probably that’s why she wants a relationship ) the guy must get through some natural phases:
1) MAKE COMFORT
2) ” SEDUCE ” HER
3) They both get in a relationship.
See what is going on here? We did not include the ATTRACTION phase because woman’s reality is that she is the one who chooses the guy that will have to “seduce” her. She wants the guy to think that he is the one who is leading her to the bed but everything on the background is running as the WOMAN wants. She is the one that decides if the guy will have power over her but will not tell him directly because she wants to rationalize later that she did not have a choice and it just happened. This way it is no her fault.
Woman’s nature is that she is not sexually aggressive so she needs COMFORT before making sex with THE GUY.
So when you ask a woman what she wants in a man she tells you what THE GUY that she is attracted to must do in order to make sex with her.
She does not interpret the question as: “What do I have to do in order to be with you?”
That’s why most of the magazines are FULL OF SHIT and USELESS advice on how to seduce a woman. It is the same reason why you do not get with a woman if you listen to her advice.
She wants a MAN in the first place. If you are a MAN she is going to be attracted to you and then you can show romantic side of your personality to AMPLIFY the attraction and create comfort. Romance does not create attraction. NEVER.
It is interesting to see what is going on if a woman ask a man about what he wants in a woman.
MOST PROBABLY she will never hear him saying: “I want a woman that is smart, open minded, sweet, mother-like and so on…”
The answer is going to be: “I want some hot chick that need to be smart, open minded, sweet, mother-like and so on….”
See? Men tell first what thy are attracted to and then what makes them feel good around the woman.
Maybe this is why we men do not choose the woman and go to seduce her. Maybe this is why we have to give her an opportunity to choose us <—attract her in the first place.
I do not want to come across as a guy that hates women. NEVER. I just believe that a woman does not want the guy to decide if he is going to conquer her heart. She is born with they key for yours but because her first name is Woman she will wait for you to do the job.
That’s what i had to say about the advice women give. If you are not able to attract a woman then her advice will not going to help you because it is not natural to become romantic friend with the woman and then attract her. Some women actually argue that this is possible but i can assure you that this is not going to happen with you and if it does you will not be with the woman that you truly want.
Have a nice day and feel free to comment what you think about this topic.
See you soon.
Your friend D3N1S.
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