Archive for May, 2008
Well, it’s more like the newest forum on the internet, but I think it will soon live up to the name of that post.
So, as you know we are two guys, writing this blog. D3N1S and me - Im2ortal. A week ago he came up with the idea to build a forum for our site. At the begining I did not liked the idea, but he was pretty convincing and here we are now … opening our forum.
It’s a great idea, the forum is far more user interactive and friendly. You are free to post your ideas and contribute to our community. So the link to the forum is simply - dating.im2ortal.com/forum! Go there, register an account and start having a great conversation with men and women interested in the same area - dating and more …
See you in the forum….
P.S. I’ve been really busy at work these days, so I haven’t posted that much. Stay tuned for the review that I am going to write to a new great book by Stephanie Nielson!!
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This post is written by D3N1S.
How many times you have said to yourself: “She is the one!” ????
5? 6? 11?
Why do men find a girl that they even don’t know very well and think that she is the meaning of their life?
Well at first NOTHING wrong. But when you do not fuck her and watch her with somebody else there is something wrong here. How come she is the one for you but you are not the one for her?
Anyway..leave that question not answered.
A month later you get her out of your head and you see another woman that becomes the point of your life. Hmm there is something VERY WRONG here. You do want to be with her but she does not even know that you EXIST. Probably she has seen you on the street and that’s all….
Why the hell this happens over and over again….
The quick answer is: INSECURITIES.
The more the more.
Let me tell you something. The universe is PERFECT. Everything on our planet is perfect. The problem is - YOU. If you think that something is wrong once again the problem is in yourself.
Let’s talk more about the One.
If you are an AFC ( Average Frustrated Chump ) without knowing about it consciously you will never know why nobody can answer you the question i typed above and why you will never have the woman that is marked “the One” except if you “get lucky”. Of course if you get lucky you can win the lottery. But there is something wrong here so you do not wait and hope to win the lottery BUT you do wait to become some miracle and you approach the One and win her over and everything in your life becomes perfect. Unfortunately that does not happens. If you think like you have always thought you will get the same result as usual.
Let me tell you something. You will never have that very woman because you DO NOT KNOW how to go out and pick up 10 more beautiful and fun women and have sex with them. You are programmed to believe that you have to find the One and be happy with her just like in the hollywood movies. NOOOOOOO. If you want to have the woman you want you must learn how to be able to attract women in general. It is that easy.
The first thing you have to do is to become rAFC ( recovering AFC ) so your brain thinks in a different way. Now when all the fog is gone you see the road and you can start walking so you probably become a pick up artist.
But no matter what kind of books you read about Pick up you will never become one if you do not change your way of thinking.
More about the One….
Here i am going to post some tricks that can make your bad emotions to go away…
1) Delete her phone number from your GSM. If you are one of her girl-friends and she calls you just say that you are busy and hang up.
It is a natural psychology for men to become even more interested in the girl when she has been distanced and then suddenly she come close to them. So be careful with this.
2) If you have photos of her get rid of them. Maybe your ass will respect you if you show him what they are like. For digital pictures use your system command for deletion.
3) If you have chat messenger and she is there block her and then delete her user name. You don’t hate her. You just do not care about her just like you do not care for some person in china you do not know. She is no more special vagina to you.
4) Try to avoid places where she goes with her friends. If you work together with her it is your fault that you had put your pen in the company ink.
5) You are not angry at all. You just know that you want something better for you.
6) Go out with friends. They know women. Talk to them.
7) If you still think that she is the One and you can not get rid of her let me tell you something: There are around 6.5 billion people on this world. Women are over 53%. Why do you think she is the special one. Maybe she is the special one in the village you live? Hahaha.
8) If a man has insecurities it is a natural for him to try to win and go after something that he feels he has chance to. So if a woman smiles at him she becomes the One. What a fucking reality! Sad but true.
9) If you see her someday try to be more judging. You can see that she has not get rid of some hair on her body. If she goes to the toilet be sure that her shit does not smells like a lilac.
10) Be a man whore and a bitch - sleep with her friends and play her own games with her.
Sometimes women may play hot and cold with you. Once she is nice to you but when you try to escalate she is cold and will not have sex with you because she feels more sexy when you are after her and besides you kick your own balls to feed her ego. Is that what you want. I will answer instead of you. NO. This is not what you want. Trust me.
Here is a nice song you have to print and put it on your desk or wall.
“When A Woman’s Fed Up”
I’m standing here looking in the mirror
Saying “damn” to myself
I should have known the day would come
That she would find somebody else
And all the things I took her through
Shit, I shouldn’t have lasted this long
Now I’m at this telephone booth calling Tyrone
[1] - Cuz when a woman’s fed up
(No matter how you beg, no)
It ain’t nothing you can do about it
(Nothing you can do about it)
It’s like running out of love
(No matter what you say, no)
And then it’s too late to talk about it
(Too late to talk about it)
Now let’s talk about how it all goes down
I used to make love to you daily
When the night fell the same
And anytime that you were hurt
I could feel your pain
And if I had a dollar
It was yours, yeah
And whenever we would go out
I would front the bill
But now the up is down
And the silence is sound
I hurt you too too many times
Now I can’t come around
[1] - Cuz when a woman’s fed up
(No matter how you beg, no)
It ain’t nothing you can do about it
(Nothing you can do about it)
It’s like running out of love
(No matter what you say, no)
And then it’s too late to talk about it
(Too late to talk about it)
La da da da da la la da da
La da da da da la la da da
If you don’t want to find out the hard way
Then listen to this song while the record plays
[1] - Cuz when a woman’s fed up
(No matter how you beg, no)
It ain’t nothing you can do about it
(Nothing you can do about it)
It’s like running out of love
(No matter what you say, no)
And then it’s too late to talk about it
(Too late to talk about it)
You can cry a river
‘Till an ocean starts to form, yeah
But she will always remember
Cuz she’s a woman scorned
And if you ever get her back
It will never be the same
She’s cuttin’ the corners of her eyes
Every time she see your face
Now your trust is out the door
She don’t want you no more
You used to tell your boys, not me
And she would always be there for you
If you had took the time to see
What that woman meant to you
Is what the mirror said to me, whoa
She was raised in Illinois
Right outside of Chicago
Some of the best cookin’ you ever had
Yes, it was and I miss her
Hey woman, if you’re listening
I said I miss you baby
NOTE! Women are not your enemy. Reading all this may make you think that they are evil and want to fuck up with you. This is not what i am trying to project. Ok?
See you soon.
Your friend: D3N1S
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Now i am going to blow your reality. Are you ready?
Have you ever had the feeling that you have met the most incredible girl in the whole world? But there is something wrong- you don’t know her name. You know nothing about her but you suddenly start to perceive her as the center of your life and the university.
You know that you want her. What you don’t know is if she wants you. “Does she want me?” < –BAD QUESTION. VERY, VERY WRONG.
Anyway….
She smiles at you.
Another question arrives in your head: Is she just friendly or she flirts? <– BAD QUESTION. VERY, VERY WRONG.
Anyway….
You see her to talk with somebody else.
One more question you are dying (not) to know: Is he her boyfriend? <– I do not have words to describe just how wrong this kind of thinking is.
There is something even more frustrating. The last week she seemed to flirt with you, even she touched your shoulder ( and you realized that you didn’t put deodorant on you ) but today she even does not head a glance at you.
The very question that you want ( not ) to know: “Does she likes me?”
Does this seem familiar to you? Sure it does.
10x god i have made a post: “Reading body language for seduction” where you can collect information about how women show interest. But the problem is that your reality is f*cked up and you probably have had no idea about this staff.
When you are in this situation no matter how much you know about body language you do want to know if she likes you. You decide to CHASE her.
You have got the “KISS OF DEATH” !
What do you read? Two main words:
1) KISS
2) DEATH
KISS. Sounds so good. FORGET IT. Thing about the deep meaning of the word DEATH. Do you realize it?
I hope you do.
When you’ve got this syndrome the more you think if she likes you the more you are about to kill your energy and the less you have chance to win her.
Chicks can sense when you are into the kiss of death and this is the most unattractive trait a man can ever has. You care to much about what she thinks about you and you are *scared* to lose something you have NEVER had.
It is even more complicated.
You start to analyze every move she makes, every word she says, every subtle behavior and you relate them to YOURSELF and orient yourself what kind of person you are according to her reaction. If she is nice to you your life has a meaning. If she is rude - you are slowly dying. THE WORST CASE EVER YOU WANT TO BE.
Generally it is natural not to be able to understand completely women. When it is about dating there is not very logical relation between their behaviors. One moment you are the men of her dreams, the next moment she is like you don’t exist for her or disappears with saying bye.
Of course there is an in depth explanation of this kind of behavior but i will talk about it when i discuss the ATTRACTION syndrome. Not the AFFECTION one.
So lets go back to our topic.
The best advice i can give you is to STOP analyzing every move women make.
Then what do i do in order to get her?
Solution: It is always ON. If you are attracted to a particular woman then she is attracted to you. This kind of reality seems to work very consistent and you get rid of the what-is-she-thinking-about-me-reality.
Pessimists are not a p*ssy-magnet. Never have been. Most probably will never be.
In psychology the more you believe that you can do something the more it is probably to actually do it. If you believe you are attractive and you have something that she will value there is much bigger chance that she will be attracted to you.
NOTE! Have in mind that this is very good advice but at the same time it is very misleading too.
Once again: It is not the point to tell yourself that you are attractive so you have a logical reason to believe you are attractive. The point is to tell yourself that you are attractive so you BELIEVE it.
One of the very difference between the AFC ( Average Frustrated Chump) and the PUA ( Pick Up Artist ) is the way they perceive the world around them.
The AFC believes that the women are the center of his reality while the PUA believes that he is the center of his reality.
No matter how much AFC you are you CAN CHOOSE if you want to change yourself.
Make the right decision!
Remember: Once you take the red pill you will never be able to transform back to AFC! EVER.
See you soon.
Your friend: D3N1S.
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I turned back to see if she has turned back to see if i had turned back.
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This post is written by D3N1S.
Hi guys.
Today i am going to talk about some really interesting topic that must be mastered before you even try to actually seduce a woman.
I am talking about how to kiss the girl so she feels comfortable for the next step.
Trust me - if you do not do this part of the pick up you will probably NEVER get laid except if you are a hard core player and you have found some party girl.
So lets see how to kiss a girl.
Read the rest of this post and you will love me forever.
Lets say that you are on a date with the girl and it is time for the kiss. You have overcome your inner wussy and you are just ready to make the move for the kiss.
I am sure that most of you have been in this situation where the girl puts her head to the side and does not allow you to kiss her.
What now?
Well, everything in the dating world has a solution and you can find it here of course.
If a girl does not want to be kissed there is a reason.
-She might be surprised what you are doing.
- She might have not expected it at this moment.
- She might have not expected to be kissed at all.
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- She sees something on you that is stopping her to kiss you.
Generally speaking she may thinks that you are too pushy and direct. ( I DO NOT say this is bad )
It is a good practice to wait for some seconds and then try again. If that does not help you most probably you lack in kino escalation. I have posted months ago that before kissing a girl you have to hold her hand. When she is comfortable with hand holding then you will feel when it is the right time to go for the kiss.
If that does not help you too you can try something cocky and funny. Say: “O.k. Lets first get married!”
If it makes her comfortable but she does not want to kiss you again maybe there is something about you. If you think that it is not the case i advice you to become a little more cocky.
Do one of the following:
1) Take her head to your side and kiss her. DO NOT BE RUDE.
2) If the first solution does not help you just say: “What? You don’t know how to kiss and you are worried to risk? I have no intention to teach you.
3) Just like the second but here you say softly: “If you have a bad breath here take a gum.” <– This is a GAMBIT. Use it on your own risk!.
4) You can say: “I do not like girls who can’t kiss”
5) “You know what. I don’t by such a shit. You can save it for some wuss-bag. I know you want me and this is the only way to be with me.”
Some of them are pretty cocky so you should be careful whether you maintain the meta-frame. Be the leader. Never make excuse for beeing a man and your desires as a man.
Here is a secret weapon you can use in case she is acting distanced. Be careful. This is like the dynamite. If you don’t play with it carefully you will be sorry too.
6) “You have 60 seconds to stop acting like my little sister and go for the kiss. If not i am leaving.” Then have a look at your watch or GSM and put out money for the bill. ( You have to act like you are leaving. No body cares what you say. They see if you are congruent with it. So your body language must be the one to talk ). When there are 30 seconds left say: “ I am really serious“. When there are 15 seconds left say: “15 seconds later when i get up from the sofa even if you come to kiss me it is going to be too late.”
When you put her in this situation she will try to think but at the same time the emotion will be too big and she will not be able to make a rational decision because the time is passing. She will be so confused that she will go for the kiss. Trust me. Of course you have to have a value so she will have something to lose. Nobody wants to lose.
In order to make it as smooth as possible pay attention to the body language she is giving you. Read my article ” Reading body language for seduction.”
See you soon.
Your friend D3N1S.
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Never argue with angry or rested woman!
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