This post is written by Karlos DeMarko.
Today i was reading a TOP FASHION men magazine and i saw an article where they talk about “Difficult female questions and how to respond correctly”. Of course they have no idea that in the community this is called “shit tests” and the interesting thing was how they give advice for responding to them.
What i noticed is that they try to answer in a way that makes the woman feel a comfort and good about herself. Of course if she is very attracted to you it is ok to build comfort but in most cases when you give a woman too much validation you make the attraction a constant. The problem is that by definition attraction is an emotional feeling which can not be always the same level.It always varies so when you validate a woman too much it is at the expense of the attraction you have build.
Of course these people have no idea that the process of making a woman to fall in love with you is based on two different things - ATTRACTION + COMFORT which are very opposite. So in order to make everything ok you have to put the woman on a position where she is neither too much validated nor de-validated.
Here are some of the shit tests your girl may throws at you.
1. How much do you love me?
Right answer: Put your hands in front of you with your palms pointing each other then separate them a bit and say proudly: “this/so much!”
Wrong answers:
-No
-Maybe, i don’t know.
- Why do you ask me?
- Does it matter?
-If it makes you feel better then YES i love you.
2. Am i fat?
If a woman asks you if she is fat then trust me she perceives herself as a fat one. If you tell her that she is not then she knows that you are lying to her. If you tell her that she is then you may brake the comfort level between both of you which will make the attraction too high and will de-validates her. Honestly i didn’t see a single magazine or article where they answer correctly to this question. They always advice you to say that she is not fat but trust me she knows you are lying. So…
Right answer:
- Oh, that’s why Jeniffer Lopez doesn’t want to come to our town.
- Yes. You are HUGE. ( GAMBIT! Use it on your own risk and only if she is anything but fat! )
Wrong answer ( in spite of every one will advice you to use it! )
- No.
3.Do you think she is more beautiful than me?
Right answer: Oh, Are there other women here? ( said with a surprise!)
4. All the women are watching at you.( Meaning that you have too much value for her! )
Right answer: ( The same as above )
5. What are you thinking about?
Right answer: If i wanted you to know i would talk about it, instead of thinking…! ( said with a little smirk )
Wrong answer: ( Telling her what you have been thinking about! )
This is enough for today. Hope you got the idea. Depending on how much attraction or comfort you want to build you decide what to do at the current situation. The answers above are meant for men who are currently in a relationship or something like that. Of course you have to be congruent with your answers. You can not pretend to be the cool guy when there is nobody to go out with or you may realize how attraction really works when you see her back.
See you soon.
Your friend Karlos DeMarko.
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1. She hates men.
Some women love to put men down or just to make them feel uncomfortable. These types of women do not care about other people. They think only about their own feelings. If they give their body to somebody it is going to be for the maximum price.
2.You are too poor.
Although the attraction is based on things different than the money some men have no idea how to attract women and believe that money is the key. This way they do not develop their attractive personality which makes them feel unworthy and women lose attraction for this kind of guys. Of course regular people would rationalize it like “he is not rich” that’s why HE is not good with women.
3.She is CURRENTLY in love with somebody else.
Well…i think there is no need to explain this. I will only give you the most expensive advice ever: DO NOT TRY TO CONVINCE A WOMAN LOGICALLY WHY HER MAN IS NOT GOOD FOR HER. NEVER! Attraction is based on emotional feelings so no matter how much you EXPLAIN her that he is not good for her it is simply not gonna work. Instead try to engage her emotionally WHILE YOU GO OUT AND SEDUCE OTHER WOMEN!
4. She likes to flirt and nothing more.
Some women with low self esteem ( LSE ) or the married ones will often flirt with you but when you try to escalate she will put you down and maybe will try to make you feel guilty. The reason she is doing this is because she wants to be loved. Women say they feel good when men are trying to win over them. The real reason women do that is because they are biological machines that have two main quests:
- survive
- replicate
No matter that she has a man who is protecting her and can make her kids it is a primary need to constantly try to gain social value. Even women are ready to lose what they have in order to gain more.
5. She has fucked up character.
Most women who belong to this category have men fucked up men and they believe that men are the enemies. And just because you are a man she will put you down. This is a big complex so you’d better not stay around such women.
6. Your first step was wrong.
The reason a woman tell you: “Fuck you” has nothing in common with who you are. It is just that you didn’t present your character the proper way. If you are at a disco bar and you put your hand on some woman’s shoulder and say: “Hi baby” it may work with one woman but not work at all with another one. Direct approach is 50/50. Sometimes it is good other - not.
7. You have been on the right place in the wrong time.
She is not in the mood, dude. Try later.
8. She is recovering from a long term relationship. It is called - being FREE.
Imagine you have been in a prison for the last two years and now you are out and have a million dollars? Will you stay at your village?
9.You are a wuss.
There is no bigger turn off than a guy who is tall, has two eyes, two ears, two hands and legs AND is not confident in his skin. If you feel nervous around women do not expect that she will become your mother to make you feel good AND then open her legs for you. Well you may become one of her girl-friend and listen how some idiot doesn’t respect her. If you don’t like this idea then CONFIDENCE is the key. Boldness is not recommended.
Remember: Attraction is something you are, not something you do. So the attractive traits like confidence will work with women if they are a part of you but not something you do. You can not act confident and expect it to work. You have to become one instead.
10. Something else!
Find a way to fix it.
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See you soon.
Your friend Karlos DeMarko.
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The very first intimate thing that separates the friendship from romance is the kiss.
As a player you must learn to smoothly escalate to the kiss if you want to seduce many women in this life that you will NEVER live again.
For most men it is a little uncomfortable when it is about to kiss a woman for the first time. The reason is obviously because he is scared of rejection and fucking things up.
This is a very destructive kind of thinking because if you are scared to be rejected it means that your mind is perceiving the surrounding reality in a distorted way. It means that you are with THE GIRL instead of with SOME GIRL.
I know most of you will say that i am some kind of hard core player who has absolutely no feelings but the reality is that this is not true. The reason i am saying that is because i believe that before going out with THE GIRL you should know what girls are in generally and how to deal with them.
The only difference between the dream girl and some girl is how YOU PERCEIVE THEM. You feel attraction to both of them but the mentioned difference is in the COMFORT LEVEL. People call this LOVE and i have seen in the stores hundreds of books ( full of shit ) about this thing called LOVE which is nothing more than ATTRACTION + COMFORT so writing whole books with complex thoughts is not necessary reading because they are not reality based.
So in order to learn how to seduce women you first must learn how to kiss them. And as i said to learn how to kiss them you have to stop perceiving them as GOD, ANGELS and so on. She is just a girl and you can use her to practice.
Now back to the topic…
Is she ready to be kissed?
Here are some of the routines you can use.
1. Never go directly for the kiss. This may work in many situations but the idea is how to develop your skills to work in any situation. Instead of going for the kiss you first have to check the comfort level between both of you. This can be done easily. Hold her hand. If she is comfortable with hands holding then start to smoothly escalate to touching her hair. If she is comfortable with it you can put it to the other side of the shoulder so you expose her neck. ( Sometimes girls will do that by themselves which means that they are ready for more…and don’t forget the hands holding first! ). When you do that take her and pull her into your personal space ( in general if you want to get as close to a woman as possible don’t break her personal space. Instead take her to yours! ). Then put your lips close to hers ( WITHOUT PUTTING OUT YOUR TONGUE! ) and wait for her to make the move. Most of the times she will. If she does not go for the kiss but do not resists then just kiss her. Also most of the times in the beginning even the top level party girls will not start acting like they have never seen a man before so do not expect to escalate very fast.Be the one who ends the kiss first after a minute or two of kissing and tell her “Bad girl! This is all you will get… for now!” This way you are playing a push-pull game which is one of the basic mechanism of creating sexual tension.
2. Mystery’s kissing routine.
You: Do you want to kiss me?
If she says “Yes” go and kiss her.
If she says: “Maybe” or “I don’t know” tell her: “Let’s find out” and kiss her.
If she says: “Not now” it means that she is not ready. I big mistake you can do here is to start trying to change her mind! Never do it. It is a logical decision where the problem is on emotional level. Instead try to change her MOOD! Anyway… later when it is the (right) time kiss her.
If she says: “No!” it means two things:
- She is not interested in you, YET
- She is interested but she is playing hard to get because in some magazine she had read was written to not be too easy in the beginning.
In the last case instead of being negative check my post http://www.datingrevelations.com/she-does-not-want-to-be-kissed/ for more info.
3. I am not going to tell you….now!
Hey dude, you are not going to go on a Ninja mission. It is just a pussy. Don’t be so scared.
See you soon.
Your friend Karlos DeMarko.
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This post is not written by John Roch neither Ben Revelate.
Hi guys,
How is it going with the dating life? The summer is slowly disappearing so if you are not a part of some exotic place you should practice your skills like never before.
The reason i am writing this article is because something tragedly happened to my team - John Rock and Ben Revelate ( Maybe you just realized that he exists on the first place ) are not going to post for some time.
John Rock is not going to work with me anymore because he is more romantic-oriented and wants to give his own advices about PICK UP.
Ben Revelate is not going to post here because he is busy with fixing his life and integrating in the university that in the future he is going to sorry he decided to go.
If you feel empty without them you can go and top up some chick to release your pain. You will feel much better. Trust me.
Oh i would forget…
Anna is joining the team - 18 years old hot model from Russia that knows her shit. Keep coming here for more advices and fun.
See you soon.
Your friend Karlos DeMarko.
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